“Stay in the now, let your eyes gaze softly towards the future, remain unattached to the outcome, and find meaning in the moment. Deal with what comes, as it comes.”
Trevor is a teacher, author and facilitator who uses Viktor Frankl’s logotherapy to help people find meaning and purpose.
Twenty-Two Lessons For Now
Twenty-two Lessons for Now is an intelligent, witty, and easy-to-read guide to crafting a life of meaning and joy.
Trevor’s flagship course that assists individuals and employees to deal with stress and burnout by thinking clearly, cultivating optimism and communicating assertively.
LESSON OF THE MONTH
How long will you wait before you tell the truth, and what price will you pay for not telling it? The first person to whom we need to tell the truth is ourselves. What do you know? Who needs to know? What are you not willing to look at, honestly and truthfully? You cannot change anything until you accept it. How will you change if you are not accepting what needs to be changed? How will you change if you are not telling the truth about it?
If you find yourself punishing yourself – or others – in covert and subtle ways, the chances are it is because a truth needs to be told. So, tell that truth, and tell it faster. Whatever the outcome, at least you will be dealing with reality. When we deal with what is, we can take action. You cannot take action from a place of denial. Why would you? But when you stare reality in the face and speak from your heart, you allow yourself – and others – to take action.
“I Matter has opened my mind in ways I never imagined possible. People at work smile more, listen better, and even work harder! I told my boss, the other day, that it is like a dream come true.”
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING
“A powerful, beautifully written and heartfelt manual for life! So much wisdom packed tightly into succinct and valuable life lessons. Read it, re-read it, share it and live it!”
CARIN MARCUS, Clinical Social Work / Logotherapist